Ian Kerner exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how." While it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" In She Comes First the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay. Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success.